I always feel that a women lives under the illusion that she is sacrificing herself to give
her loved ones (her husband, children, the aged in-laws) every thing they need. In fact, she is doing nothing of that sort, for their needs may not be the same as hers. She confuses them as her own and cannot see them as separate and distinct. Thus it has created a pitiful female type, a martyr who has worked her fingers to the bone, given up the best years of her life for her loved ones, and yet been abandoned. When she finally starts thinking of herself, it is too late. What does this sort of life give you? Nothing but a progeny you can never count on. My piece of advice to you is, be realistic. Come what may, don’t forget to live your life as well. Find time for yourself, feel more important to yourself, make your own space in this vast expanse, for God has created it for you too!
There may be a lot of ups and downs in life, but the only policy to move forward is to forget and forgive, after all it is a very short life.
ReplyDeleteThanks for your response, Jabbar. The saddest part is adjustment in most cases comes only from the female side.
DeleteWhat you said is true on Marco analysis, but you should keep in mind that male and female chromosome are entirely different and female body anotomy is also entirely different from male, and only females can accomplish some very important functions in lufe. No one can separate the mind and body, it is inseperable,accordingly the functions, reactions and responses of a male always differs from female. That is the nature and destiny.
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